Changes

Bump jetty-server in /tests/qa/lifecycle-test

Bumps [jetty-server](https://github.com/eclipse/jetty.project) from 9.4.41.v20210516 to 9.4.51.v20230217.
- [Release notes](https://github.com/eclipse/jetty.project/releases)
- [Commits](https://github.com/eclipse/jetty.project/compare/jetty-9.4.41.v20210516...jetty-9.4.51.v20230217)

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updated-dependencies:
- dependency-name: org.eclipse.jetty:jetty-server
  dependency-type: direct:production
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Signed-off-by: dependabot[bot] <support@github.com>

Fix race condition causing unexpected idle disconnections

This issue may appear when 'send[data]' methods are triggered from different threads. As a result
threads race appears between cancelIdleTimeoutExecutor and scheduling new idle task.
Example of race:
1. Thread 1 cancels task
2. Thread 2 waits until thread 1 will finish
3. Thread 1 finishes
4. Thread 2 tries to cancel already cancelled task and leaves synchronized block
5. Thread 1 schedules new idle task
6. Thread 2 schedules another idle task, the first is overwritten and never cancelled.
As a result disconnection is triggered precisely after set idle timeout passes.

Signed-off-by: Mykyta Leonov <nykyta.leonov@gmail.com>

setup-java v3

Updated 1.x dependency versions

Signed-off-by: jansupol <jan.supol@oracle.com>

Make sure `@OnClose` is called when `ProtocolHandler.close` throws IOException

Signed-off-by: jansupol <jan.supol@oracle.com>